Everyone has an internal eye. It always watching. It has been slowly constructed by society at large and by your friends and family, and it checks you for unacceptable behaviour. If you have had it around for long enough, you actually start to believe that the eye is you, and that youāre ābeing reasonableā or some other rationalization.
But the eye isnāt you at all. It is a prison, and you have justified its existence by obeying it. Itās strong because you let it be strong.
But the secret, the part thatās amazing, is that it canāt do anything to stop you, even if it wanted to. Itās an eye. It can only watch. The rest of you is free to act as you wish.